In time Jacob became very
wealthy, and he had large flocks, slaves, and asses. But he heard
Laban's sons say, "Jacob has taken all that was our father's, and
from that which was our father's he has gotten all this wealth." He
also saw that Laban did not act toward him the same as before. So
Jacob rose and put his sons and his wives upon the camels and drove
away all his cattle. He deceived Laban, for he did not tell him that
he was fleeing away. So he fled across the river Euphrates, with all
that he had, and set out on his way toward Mount Gilead.
Then Jacob sent messengers before him to his brother Esau. And he
gave them this command, "Say to my lord Esau: 'Your servant Jacob
declares, I have lived with Laban and have stayed until now. I have
oxen and asses, flocks and slaves, and I have sent to tell my lord,
in order that I may win your favor.'" The messengers returned to
Jacob with the report, "We came to your brother Esau, even as he was
coming to meet you with four hundred men."
Then Jacob was greatly alarmed and worried. So he divided the people
that were with him and the flocks and the herds and the camels into
two parts and said, "If Esau comes to the one and attacks and
destroys it, then the other which is left can escape."
Jacob also prayed, "O God of my father Abraham and God of my father
Isaac, deliver me, I pray thee, from the hand of my brother, from
the hand of Esau, for I fear that he will come and attack me and
kill the mothers and the children."
Then Jacob took as a present for his brother Esau, two hundred
female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty
rams, thirty milch camels and their young, forty cows and ten bulls,
twenty female asses and ten young asses. These he put, each drove by
itself, in the care of his servants and said to them, "Go on before
me and leave a space between the droves."
He gave those in front this command: "When my brother Esau meets you
and asks you, 'To whom do you belong? and where are you going? and
whose are these before you?' then you shall say, 'To your servant
Jacob; it is a present sent by him to my lord Esau; and Jacob
himself is just behind us.'" Jacob also commanded the second, and
the third, and all that followed the droves, to make the same
answer, and to say, "Jacob himself is just behind us." For he said
to himself, "I will please him with the present that goes before me,
and then, when I meet him, perhaps he will welcome me." So he sent
the present over before him; but he himself spent that night in the
camp.
Later that night he rose up and took his two wives, his two maid
servants, and his eleven children, and sent them over the river
Jabbok.
Jacob was left alone, and one wrestled with him until daybreak. When
he saw that he did not win against Jacob, he struck the socket of
his hip, and the socket of Jacob's hip was strained, as he wrestled
with him. Then he said, "Let me go, for the dawn is breaking." But
Jacob replied, "I will not let thee go unless you bless me." So he
said to him, "What is your name?" He answered, "Jacob." Then he
said, "Your name shall be no longer Jacob, but Israel, which means
Struggler with God; for you have struggled with God and with men and
have won." So he blessed him there. And Jacob called the place
Penuel, which means Face of God, for he said, "I have seen God face
to face, and my life has been saved."
When Jacob looked up, he saw Esau coming with four hundred men. And
he put the maid servants and their children in front, Leah and her
children next, and Rachel and her son Joseph in the rear. Then Jacob
himself went in front of them, and he bowed down to the ground seven
times, as he drew near to his brother. Esau ran to meet him, threw
his arms about his neck, and kissed him, and they wept.
When Esau looked up and saw the women and the children, he said,
"Who are these with you?" Jacob answered, "The children whom God has
so kindly given me." Then the maid servants with their children came
up and bowed down to the ground. Leah and her children also came and
bowed down, and afterward Joseph and Rachel came up and bowed down
before Esau.
Esau asked, "What do you mean by all this company which I met?"
Jacob answered, "To win your friendship, my lord." Esau said, "I
have enough, my brother; keep what you have." But Jacob replied,
"No, if now I have won your favor, receive this present from me to
show that you are my friend. Take, I beg of you, the gift that I
bring to you, for God has been generous to me, and I have enough."
So he urged Esau until he took it.
Then Esau said, "Let me at least leave with you some of the people
who are with me." But Jacob replied, "What need is there? Let me
only enjoy your friendship, my Lord." So Esau turned back that day
on his way to Seir.